I've played GTA III a few times WAY BACK and I think I've played San Andreas once or twice.
I think the cloud around the series is ridiculous really. It's just like watching a mafia movie, the only difference being interaction. *shrugs* It's just another story, another taste. It's not exactly something I look forward to, but I'm not about to say get rid of it because I don't care for it, which to be honest I don't really know. I've hardly played the games after all. I know I like crashing cars into things, I had a trial version of Midtown Madness on my PC years ago.
I've become more open to games after some of Nintendo's recent moves. Opened my eyes a bit, even though I was really never in the boycotting camp. Just liked Mario and Zelda was all.
I agree, the cloud surrounding the series is ridiculous. That's why I created this thread, to try to dissolve that cloud, at least for some of the users here. It appears my efforts have not had the effect I had hoped for.
I am glad that you are opening up more to games outside of Nintendo's circle. Understand that I have always been a Nintendo fan, but I have always felt that to deny oneself the experience of playing a particular game simply because it wasn't a Nintendo offering is foolish.
i've played the original GTA on the PC, and i've got GTA III & Vice City for the PS2. To be honest, I don't play them much, if at all. When I do play them, I can't get my head into the missions, either because the controls are too hard, I can't find my way around the city, or I start to get chased by cops. Basically, I can play this game for 10 minutes just faffing around in there, then I get bored. Every new version/city of GTA just seems like a graphics upgrade, with maybe different missions.
I would strongly suggest that you at least try San Andreas. The shear amount of stuff to do in that game is outstanding. Not only that but SA offered upgradable elements like driving ability, motorcylce handling, piloting skills, and much more.
Still even if the last gen GTA games aren't quite your cup of tea, GTA 4 is a proper evolution of the series and shouldn't be judged based on prior installments. If you own or have access to a PS3 or 360, give it a rent.